Blu,

I am glad you share your story here. Firstly it proves WAS can come back, but more importantly it demonstrates that that happening is not the end of the turmoil of the lbs.

I read along when.you first came here, but have not read enough lately to comment/offer advice. I admire your honesty and bravery to share your feelings.

Best wishes

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together