Bets, I don't think we were trying to change your mind...just give you a few angles to consider.
Everyone knows when enough is enough for them...and you have all of us behind you no matter what you decide. Whether he sh!ts or gets off the pot, your sharks will have your tail, baby. No question about it.
GO YOU!
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian