Also as part of detaching - I'm thinking about reaching out to ex wife #1 just to see her and hope for more closure and clarity on that what're.

I'm not sure it's reopening an old scar. Something tells me it may help me gain perspective on what's happening to me now. It's been 17 years since I spoke to or saw her.

But the thrust of this post is to get feedback on my 180 to move back into Mbr after being essentially thrown out almost 10 months ago.

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Me 45, W 50
M1 - 1994
D1 - 2000
T-8 M-2.5
No children
M2 (current w)- 2003
T-14 M-14
BD1 - Jan 2016
Sept 7 2016, Piecing
BD2 - Nov 2016, IWAD
Jan 2017, Piecing
D-12, D-10,D-10,D-10,D-9,S-8