LNL - to answer your question about H's and their respective traits....my H did not exude any of the traits that he is now showing--i.e. he was always on time or early, he was considerate in the gifts he chose for bdays or holidays, he was committed, etc... The traits he has today-forgetfulness, late on occasion, fence-sitting are not features he ever exposed to me pre-Bomb.
Betsey - sorry if I seemed to be stepping on your toes. I was trying to give you some insight to things we had discussed before. (((((((((())))))))))) I know you're tired of waiting. You deserve to be happy.