I haven't been here in forever but just thought of this place and looked to see if it was still here. I just posted an update in my last thread (from 2012!) and you can add me to the success stories of reconciling after divorce. Here is the link to my last thread at Piecing. I can't seem to find my original threads. The furthest posts of mine that show up are from 2006 so I also added a bit (of a novel) of background to my update too for context. Hope this gives someone some hope.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2735806#Post2735806