Originally Posted By: Kaizen
Hmmmm. That sounds pretty judgmental.

It is. I acknowledge that. Just needed to vent.

Originally Posted By: Kaizen
I was kind of upset with my ex's family for not being more pro-marriage at first. But ultimately, Im glad that the support was there as my kids need that stability on both sides.


Generally speaking, i agree. Its good for them to have the support. Until the affair, i thought they were good people, and other than condoning her adultery, they are. The support will be good for the kids in the long run.

Originally Posted By: Kaizen
My guess is MIL wasnt sure how to talk to you. Its likely just as awkward for her as it is for you.


Deep down, i know this is the truth. Its super awkward on her. Probably more than it is for me. She doesn't have the personality/emotions to process this well.


M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6
11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA
Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing
1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break
2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing
2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process