Originally Posted By: Jeep74
Which leads me to another fear - a very rational fear that she may repeat her mother's actions when they were young. That scares me more than anything.


Jeep,

That's a rational fear.

When my XW was a little girl, she went to a doctor. The doctor told her mother that something was amiss. Apparently her mother never did anything about it; no questions, nothing. That's scary. It's good that you remain vigilant when it comes to your children.