Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc
The one upside to these ordeals is that we can become truly better people. Why avoid that? At least get your "money's worth" from this garbage.

Pain is the touchstone for tremendous growth, or victimhood.

In the end, this^^ is all up to us. [/color]


This is really, really good stuff, IMO.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)