V the divorce really took a toll on me also. The anxiety and depression were aweful. Two years after my d I lost my job and took the job I have now. My boss is a difficult passive aggressive person. So with her constant criticism and bullie attitude I haven't really heal from my depression or truly been able to glue myself. So 3 weeks ago I gave my resignation to do my own business. Guess what the anxiety and depression have kicked up a notch. I boil it all down to fear. The fear is real. Your finances will improve in the future once all is settled.

Take deep breaths and think what's the worse that could happen? The fear will keep depression and anxiety alive.

Hang in there kiddo. It will all get better.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden