Now THIS is what I'm looking for- a concrete plan of action. Although I feel you are being a bit condescending, like you're speaking to a 5 year old, but hey, I'm looking for all the wisdom this place has to offer, so I'm good with that. Thanks for answering.
This^^ advice was what I wrote to myself and read nearly every day, 10 years ago. I would do that again if need be. I copied most of it from my journal.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016