OK, thanks 25, and I hear what you just said... that I need to decide what I want, but the part of your answer that I do not understand is where you say you have already given me suggestions as to how to approach this next situation. I looked back through my posts and do not see where you have even seen nor responded to anything I've said. Regardless, I'm learning much from advice you give to other people. Vanilla, too. I think you are both very wise and seasoned.


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M-14 years
BD 12/26/16
S 1/1/17

"First the pain, then the rising."
Glennon Doyle Melton