Probably a lot of truth in that. The problem is when they change over time. I wouldn't have married her then had she been as she is now. That obviously holds true for her as to me, too. How do you know when you jump (back) in?
I know this feeling JR. Looking at my W now I'm actually repulsed at times by who she is currently. Not a great feeling.
I hope you are doing well my friend. You deserve some happiness after the long road you've been down. No doubt that you'll find it now brother!
Keep being strong for you and the kids!
Me39 M11 : T13 D9 BD 5/31/16 In House S until 6/21/17 Divorced 10/5/18