Hey Altair, great to hear from you and good to know that you have some supportive friends around you and that you continue to be in good health.
I don't know about cake eating but your H does seem to be acting very insensitively and immaturely by discussing his house purchase with you. Only you know if you want to cut it off with him. I would say as the inevitable is going to happen, ie he is moving away and wants D is there any need to accept his invitations for coffee anymore unless you want to be his friend... ?
(((Altair)))
Me - 47 H - 45 D-16 M - 6 years Separated - May 16
Don't leave me behind can't you see me I'm shining... (Years & Years - 'Shine')