I like that analogy. Part of the reason i am on the fence is because one of the main issues of the years is that I didn't pay enough attention to her and the attention I did pay was negative. So obviously, no negative attention and maybe a sliding scale approach on the communication.


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17