Question: during the detaching process, do I pay attention to her, look at her like a woman, compliment her, make her feel special, alive? Or just ignore her and only answer questions she has for me?
Treat her like a colleague at work who you kinda know and sometimes say hi to, but aren't close with. Be nice and polite, but brief with your conversations. If that colleague has a new hair style, maybe you'd say something nice. If that colleague wears a revealing shirt, you probably won't say anything.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process