What in the actual f***. So, you agree to not "sue" her or someone for something she made a choice in? Good luck with that. Dude, that is spineless...threatening to "sue" if she doesn't talk. How old are you, 10? You ARE acting like "Hitler."
She wants me to agree to not ever sue her or a third party in the separation agreement. What's wrong with me signing that, as long as I'm getting what I want in the rest of the deal? I don't see how that would be spineless. I didn't threaten to sue her if she doesn't talk. I said maybe after we have signed the agreement, if it has that clause in it, she will feel more free to talk to me and tell me the truth about everything that happened.
it's not unusual in a separation agreement to include a ton of boiler plate language. I don't know what state you are in. But every state has no fault grounds.
One thing to know - if you do sue her for A, she may well counter with her own fault grounds in you. Then a whole lot of the money goes to lawyers and gets you nowhere with your w.
My question is what your goal is, now.
And IF you are not talking about a lot of money & assets, then be careful about quibbling.
Most importantly, How do you want to feel about yourself and your conduct, down the road? Do you want to be a man of strength and honor, who handles a heartache with grace,
or a man too angry and petty to dig deep, terrified of looking in the mirror, and who is constantly using a measuring stick to "Win"?
(Oh, btw she has her own measuring tool, and it does not match the measurement tool you have.)
Keep at this. IT does get better.
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