Also, the OM's now ex-wife and I have become friends and have gone out for drinks on several occasions...something that drives the ex and the OM crazy. HAHA!
Yeah. I have thought a lot about that. I want to talk to her really badly. See what she knows. And just relate to her.
My advice - be careful, if the OM confront, are you prepared to fight?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.