I am not looking forward to seeing them together, thus I avoid any opportunities where that may happen.
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That's probably something you should work on. I don't like being a bully, but if you google "bully" you can discover some of the techniques they use and put them to use in the right circumstances. Again, I'm not saying you should be a bully, but it is helpful to know how to be commanding in certain social situations. Have fun!
Oh I like that advice! I understand what you are saying. I was going a totally different direction.
M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder