thats my plan. i do plan to let her go but not let go of the idea of things maybe working out one day down the road. I will continue to live in the home, do my fatherly duties as well as take care of the home which is an asset that if things dont work out will sell one day. I will mow the yards, do the dishwasher when it needs to be done, etc... I will not be taken advantage of but will be fair since both of us still own the home and the responsibility. I wont shower her with gifts or compliments but will be nice and respectful. sound like a plan? other ideas?




one other question, I am currently sleeping on the couch. Should I move back into the bedroom (even though she sleeps at OM house most nights)? I dont want to come across as overbearing or pushy.

Last edited by Cadet; 03/29/17 11:58 AM. Reason: Combine posts

Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17