Hi all, Just thought I'd journal for a bit. I'll start by saying I am okay as I can be, in my new life. I have supportive friends, exciting upcoming trips, good health. So now to the 'other stuff'. As I said in the previous thread, H took a job back East and I just learned he is buying a house. He sent me links and asked me what I thought and is very excited about it. He wanted to take me to lunch and talk about it and he needed some paperwork that I have. We had a nice lunch and I think he has everything he needs. My IC really thinks this needs to end, this friendship desire on his end. I would like to do things from a DB way though, whatever that means. H said he wanted to do D paperwork last week "for a clean slate" but I haven't heard anything. This seems like the proverbial cake-eating: letting me down nice and easy, lessening his guilt, getting what he wants, the escape.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016