Yeah, something to think about. I know people around here refer to OM and OW by various names. I see youve taken to a$$hole. To me, I dont see the point in that. My beef was never with AP. We're never going to be friends. We're never going to be more than two people in my children's lives. I will always think poorly on the fact that AP decided to interfere with my marriage.
But calling names deflects from where my true focus should be. Dwelling on that interference does the same thing. My focus needs to be on me. Id advise you to do the same.
Thinking about the OM produces zero benefits. I only think about OM when im punching a boxing bag.
However, OM's wife can't get my wife out of her head. Its not healthy. And it gives my wife and OM something to talk about, which strengthens their bond.
M:39 W:36 - D1:2 D2:6 11/19/16 BD1: ILYBNILWY, EA/PA Dec/Jan: MC, pursuing, not DBing 1/11/17 BD2: W wants 1 month break 2/1/17: Divorce Remedy. Start DBing 2/17/17 BD3: W - separation to start D process
