Yep. Its crazy how most want to blame the OM. It's not the OM's fault by any means...he was just the vessel. There is no difference in the two. Our spouses aren't victims of conniving OMs. They went looking...an affair isn't an oops thing. They wanted it - whether it be with their partner or someone else. To them, their marriage and spouse are less than nothing. Sorry to be so blunt, but it is what it is.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
