Originally Posted By: JRuss
...that I must be utterly horrible to be with.


JRuss,

I think many of us go through the stage of blaming ourselves for not being the husbands we should've been. We get lost in our own fog. In hindsight, I was a good husband. Could I have been better? Absolutely! But, I was a good husband and an awesome dad. It's just that my XW wanted the OM and his family more than her own family.