Well she is still in the affair with OM. She is sleeping at his house nightly and coming home around 6:30am to help get our son ready for school. She is fully admitting everything and not hiding anything. So, as hard as this is to say this is what I have decided (for the moment). I feel the easy way out is to continue with the divorce, give up and move on with my life. The hard part is to fight with all my being to show her the love, respect, compassion that she showed me over the years. If I continuing to get rejected, then so be it. Whats the worst that can happen...i will get the divorce anyways. It it works then I get my wife and family back. I plan to not mention anything about the ongoing affair and be completely positive and show her that I am the man she always wanted and the father i need to be to our son. With that said, I will detach and do the 180's in the process. Thoughts? Am I off here on my approach?


Me: 38
Her: 33
Bomb: 1/6/2017
Separated: 1/10/17
Together: 16 Years
Son 12 Years Old
She and Son still at the house
Divorce Filed/Retracted Multiple Times
Divorce: scheduled to be final 6/20/17