Prayers and hugs of comfort to you, Lady V. You most certainly are not incompetent and awful...you are just overwhelmed. It is easy for the one who did the damage to blame someone else as in the case of the Gigalo, but you are a strong woman and you will figure this all out.
Hang in there and know that you are loved. May your connection to your higher power be found again soon. Take care of yourself!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
