lt -- I continue to admire your patience and focus on what matters (your D), but I have no idea how you do it. It seems like your W is trying to make things so miserable that you run away and just give in on her (ridiculous) 95/5 split. If you could get her to 50/50, would you take that deal?


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)