Really seems the guys are afraid of all the sharks in the water here. Maybe I relate to you all because my WAW seems to have many non communication attributes many of your WAH have. Some gender role reversal here? I just feel I never get the straight message from her, always has to be some hidden meaning or go figure it out yourself or MOST FREQUENTLY AND ANNOYING I'm not talking about it and I'm not going to allow any time to talk about it and will then claim I have no time to give, but can go galavanting around with OM whenever and wherever.
Let this duck with one broken wing throw out a couple of questions to you all. I can't argue with the overwhelming feeling of having to take care of oneself, but it strikes me a bit odd as everyone feeling this way at once, Don't know if its Easter or what, but I haven't been on the boards too much lately and I still feel this way, weird. Moon, horoscope or whatever, just seems weird. Any thoughts on this one.
My next question I have is I noticed on all your goals, everyone has listed they will not tolerate an EA or PA. Well what if your WAS doesn't consider it an A because it is post bomb? They feel they have been honest with you so to speak. Also what does tolerate mean to you? Would you not talk to WAS or what does it look like to you?
I would appreciate some feedback on what your actions are going to look like if your respective WAS does do any of these things? What are your responses to these actions and what do they look like, actions or words?
As someone that is going through an evaluation of where I am now and where I want to go, it would be helpful to hear what others are doing. I will of course see if they apply to myself before implementing any.
I do think you ladies are doing great and have found a renewal of strength and motivation. Thinking about many similar things as well, just dont know if heart, mind, spirit, and soul all agree. Do you feel any doubts?
I always said before a dealbreaker for me would be OP, but that has come and gone and my heart tells me I still love her. So can you see what I mean? Trying to understand where my own personal boundaries really are and what my actions look like. I wonder what others actions may look like.
Forgive me for rambling or if I make little sense. I could give a variety of reasons, broken wing (but healing), tired, stressed, medications and I'm tired from typing.
