You are in a very healthy frame of mind i think to keep moving forward. It's very insightful to realize that as she is now is not someone you'd want to spend your life with.

I'm very proud of you for keeping the focus on yourself and the kids.

BTW, FWIW, I think you're very cool !!!

And I'm sure many of us here agree with me!!!!

{{{{{{{Kyh}}}}}}}

xoxoxoxo

M 20+ T25+
S ~15.5 (BD)
BD 4/6/15
D 12/23/16

"Someone I loved once gave me
A box full of darkness.
It took me years to understand,
That this too, was a gift."
~ Mary Oliver