If Mer isn't logged in, I'd have to say that's a better explanation. I think it falls into the category of understanding that we express ourselves differently (right, Hud? Music can be a form of self expression?) and learning to listen to what the other person is actually trying to say?
I'm still stuck on the one that says, "I just want to be alone!" UGHHHHHHHHHHHH. If Mr. W. has a twin brother on the east coast, I think I need to move to Bermuda or Tahiti...
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."