Taking a break from work and read your post about the decree. Sorry to read that, strangely I still feel numb about mine from last week. after my first meeting about it I felt a strange sense of relief when I left, and I was really dreading going in. I didn't drag my feet but I would take a day or two responding to process things if I needed it. Remember to treat it as a business deal at this point and to look out for yourself and kids.
