helies,

That's the plan so far - GD and 180 - and I'm sticking to it.

However, I do believe my W being at her Mother's is working against our chances as there are many including her mother that will influence and encourage to move on. And move on quickly. Not much I can do there I guess.

What is your advice when it comes to our common 'friends'? From the lack of contact with me plus not wishing us on our wedding anniversary, I presume they all know. Would be very hard to believe if they didn't - particularly the ladies. I also presume that she has poisoned all of them against me. And I'm sure she would've have been very convincing of it too. She has literally left me with no one - not a single one of them I can call and say my side of the story.

I needed to speak to a couple of them for something completely unrelated-before all this happened. Talk about bad timing! But, do you think that should be OK? Just not mention it or bring up the current state of affairs. But, if it is mentioned - how should I handle that?


Me:35 W:35
M:5 T:7
NO KIDS
S: 3rd Nov 2016 to 4th Feb 2017
BD: 7th Mar 2017
GD: 6 weeks