the bomb was dropped.....

[Gordie]

Sunmoon...this is really hard. There are days when my W wants me--including sex--and days she doesn't want to be with me. When all of this started, the former made me happy and the latter made me rejected/angry/sad. It's taken a lot of work and time to be at peace within myself and not let my W's moods and interactions literally control me...and how I feel. Take that power away from him...and give it to yourself.