Wading through. I think I'm dealing with a MLC.

[leahsue]

I love it!! I am a firm believer that those little "coincidences" are just "God whispers".
Again, I totally heard my story in your last post- about the ex. When my H's ex found out we were "working through some things, etc.", she totally came on to him at a family birthday dinner (again, too much wine for her and she notches up the crazy level)- said why don't you just come home with me? (He did not tell me this- his sister did. She said he pushed her away and of course a scene ensued with my H walking out leaving the dinner and crazy ex having a melt down, threatening to kill herself. BTW, same son's birthday whose wedding reception was interrupted!) Luckily, in all his messy confusion and behavior the last 3 months, and in the 13 years I've been married to him, she has never been a concern of mine. I think she'd be way down his list of go-to's if we don't make it, but if that happens, by then I won't care anyway. RIGHT? I'll have moved my happy self on down my own road.
(Times like this I wish we could know more about poster's location b/c I think you'd be one I could sit down with over a girl-talk happy hour!) Then again, the anonymity here is what makes it a safe place for all of us.