Wading through. I think I'm dealing with a MLC.

[Cadet]

So I'm thinking either I get him a non-romantic card or do nothing.

Whatever you decide to do is not going to make a difference in whether you save your relationship or not, is really my point.

So best to do what YOU want and not for any other reason.

Every decision you make now is - what is best for YOU,

NOT - what is best for your relationship.