Thanks Sal27. I agree.... She is not the woman I married. That is a tough reality to accept. But I choose to do so. I have to otherwise I will stay stuck. I know she can change and become that woman again or even better but all of that is a dream right now. It's not reality.


Me 38, Her 40
T-14, M-13, No kids
BD-1 4/14- EA/PA
BD-2 10/14- EA
BD-3 2/17- EA/PA
W Moves out 2.10.17 in with AP
W Served D papers 3.6.17
Divorce Final- 5.23.17