You're talking to someone who had to spank two of them this morning...so if you are bad for that then you've got company!
Well, add this to the list of things we'd need to be in practice for no matter WHO we wind up in a relationship with. We aren't doing these things as a means to win our marriage; we're doing them as a means to better ourselves. Right? Right.
Add lack of commitment to my list of deal breakers as well. At least, lack of commitment once the top two lists are considered and categorized.
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian