Future is looking hopeful??

[PacLove]

There's a lot of info out there on MLC and I believe that is really where W is... she seems to be wanting to make efforts to improve herself and has talked about it. We seem to be in "re-connection" phase, but she could also be in replay. I'm leaning towards re-connection as she's starting to do things for us again and wanting to spend family time together.

Despite her saying A is over, and I think it probably was - I have reason to believe she may be casually seeing him again. Perhaps friends with benefits or touch-n-gos with him. I'm leaning towards ignoring it as she doesn't know I know and am guessing it's lingering but on it's downward spiral.

We have a few weekends together coming up, we haven't been physical with each other and neither of us seem to be interested (ok maybe me mildly so as it's been so long) but I know it's not the time for that.

So with all this in mind, I'm now struggling with how to act around her - continue as is "developing our friendship" again or retreat in which case she's going to wonder what's up.