And before any of you tell me again that I'm doing those things for my wife, no, I recognize most of her complaints as things that I do need to improve, with or without her.
On top of reading books, I'm going to see a counselor. My step mom found one in her neighborhood, that would do it undocumented. Going to make myself a reminder to make an appointment.
I'm still thinking strongly about cutting the hair, but not sure I'm quite ready for that leap.
You mentioned getting into theater. My dad suggested that, and he and his father were big into theater at times in their lives. I might be interested in backstage work, or light/sound work. But unfortunately, a--hole is into theater, as is his wife.
M: 33, W: 30 @BD M 7, T 10 BD: Early Dec W left: Late Dec W got stuff: Late Jan W sent S papers: Mid Feb OM cnfrmd: Late Feb
Pain can yield tremendous growth OR everlasting sadness and bitterness.
