So Confused and Conflicted (5)

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Here's the thing. You can read back through your threads and find enough great advice to map out a successful turn around. Again, it begins with you.

You refuse to listen. Your W was not happy no matter what you are telling yourself. If she was, you would have never found this board.

I have found that the people that put themselves in the best position to save their marriages, are the ones that listen and put forth the effort to make changes.

You are in the presence of a great community that want to help you. When we continue to give you the same advice over and over again, but it falls on deaf ears, we all will eventually move on.

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

Life is filled with choices.

You get to choose to make changes or stay stagnant.

You get to choose to move or stay stuck.

You get to choose to listen or ignore the incredible advice you have received.

You get to choose to become better or to become bitter.

You get to choose to prove your W right or wrong for leaving.

Life is happening and it awaits no one. Keep doing what you are doing, and it will pass you by.

BTW, I have a good friend who had a sitch that paralleled mine. He was 6 months behind me. His W moved from PA to AZ with their 2 sons to be with another man. He found himself divorced a short time later. He had to take a job that wasn't all that great to see his sons.

Point being, HE DIDN'T LISTEN!!!