Jbroken, Hello! although my story is slightly different, it is the same in some aspects. I relate to your pain. my H dropped the "ive been unhappy for a long time" bomb on me last week. he wants to work on things but is fearful that the spark won't come back. He "loves me" but not "in love" with me. I'm a great person, Im loving, passionate, caring, but not "compatible" with him anymore. we are still living together, but its extremely awkward. I posted in the newcomers forum if you are interested in my story- I like that there is a lot of support here, it gives me hope and Im going to be buying the book also. keep your head up, there is hope. I'm holding on to that notion as well.
