And that's what really upsets me. W can't remember my good points or any good times. It seems to hard-hearted and unfair.
Understand that. Same here, my friend. Same here. My ex doesn't remember any, either. Just what she chooses to blame me for.
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Nevertheless, my aim was to just let them know my side and the W ended things. But, I guess no one really cares about me in this otherwise someone would've have sent at least a message to say they're sorry that this is happening.
I thought the same thing, but it fell on death ears. I would suggest keeping friends and others who don't need to know out of it. Sorry you are going through this. I really am. You will find that she will spin things so much they may not believe you, at all. If you find yourself defending yourself too much, then that's not fun. That's why I just stay away and if asked, I answer. Besides, that's the higher road...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
