Yes, I have spoken to two lawyers so I have a good picture of what I will get.
Where I live everything is split 50-50, including custody time. That is what kills me. I am willing to give up more of the stuff to have more time with my son. We'll see how all that works out.
It's like waiting for the other shoe to drop.
Any other advice?
I find myself focusing on OW in terms of her relationship with her boyfriend (not my H). I want their relationship to succeed (OW and her boyfriend). At least I won't have to deal with her as a step mother to my son. Does that make any sense? I don't know how those of you who have faced that situation deal with it. It seems so very difficult.
H is still writing OW emails professing his love for her, blah, blah, blah. Some of it is really over the top. She is not reciprocating. At a recent work-related function OW and her boyfriend were all over each other to the point it made other people uncomfortable. I just don't understand. Why would she continue to communicate with my H if she is so in love with someone else?
