WW with affair moved out 4+ weeks ago

[Bdog37]

In my opinion there's never a good reason to go out and have an affair. Truly, what kind of person does that? I know people on this forum have no idea who I am and what kind of husband I was or the kind of marriage I had....... but regardless of that I thought I was a pretty darn good husband and made a great partner in a marriage. Nothing I have done makes me deserve this kind of treatment from my wife. It is sad to see the person she has become. Please understand I'm not trying to be prideful and say that I did nothing wrong. I have my issues and I will continue to work on them to make me be the best person I can be. It's just hard for me to wrap my head around how someone can justify this type of behavior.

A lot of us have been in the same sitch and have had the same questions. I too do not understand how the woman I loved can do such a thing to me as well and know I didn't deserve it either. There are never good reasons to go out and have an A.

Continue to vent here because your W won't give you the answers you are looking for and she will do everything to justify her actions. I am sorry to say, but she is not the woman you married anymore.