Sounds to me like she is just making excuses or whatever. She has no intention of leaving the OM. Just keep that in mind.
Do you know his wife?
Haha. NO. But, would someone who has intentions of returning to the marriage still be involved in an affair?
I would never dream of reading someone's mind. Especially someone not here posting.
It's easy to see similarities in our situations and then, in an attempt to protect someone from our own pain, project our own stories onto theirs.
There is a shifting blurry line between empathy and projection. I often have to make a real effort to avoid that.
Its not mind reading and no where did I say that. Once again, if someone is involved in an affair, then how can they also be invested in fixing a marriage? Is there something I am missing?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
