why didn't you back off the friendship when you realized that it caused your marriage harm? Why fall on your sword for this when you can set such an example?
Do you really see zero double standards here?
This is not being a doormat. You don't have to "Break up" with your bff. Just withdraw for now. Are you clear about what you are standing for and now defending?
I'm sure this will not be easy but it sure isn't complicated. Did you read Kaizen's post to you carefully?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016