Leap of faith

[peacetoday]

Hi

The best thing to do for the kids is just be there for them

Listen to them
give them encouragement and lots of positive affirmations
dont talk negative about the MLCer
work your pain out in therapy
dont bring it up to them
let them know you are okay and you can handle it

This is what I found to work best
My kids are fine today even without any contact from their dad
They continue to do well in school and college and make great choices