I would say the "success" is that most of us on here take the time to learn and heal properly. We become better people for the next relationship. That could be with our current spouses or a completely new relationship.
Bingo. Because there is no going back to the old relationship...
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
