That's what I can't get over. How is it that everything is my fault? Why do people that I know too are so quick to side with her? They have seen us together - I'm a good person and have been a good husband in a lot of ways! Now, I don't know if they know how my W has actually left. I'm not sure if I should reach out to a few and test if they know she abandoned me the way she did.
In terms of GAL - should I let it be seen on social media? I feel so dead inside that I don't even know if I can fake it.
Every thing is our fault. That's how they justify things...to make their own selves feel better.
Now, why would you want to reach out and test to see if anyone knows? None of their business, your personal live is. What is your goal - to have them put in some word or something? Not a good idea on any part...at best, it would make you look bad.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
