We are going to see how the next month goes, and if things seem to be going okay, we will cancel the divorce proceedings. She and I both understand that the love will not come back in one month, and our problems will not be solved in that time either.
So, if you both know that love/problems won't be fixed in that short of time, then why that time limit?
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her fear is that if the feelings don't come back, it will be hard for me to accept that and it will be the inital split all over again, which was very hard for both of us due to me not wanting the divorce or split.
Honestly, this sounds like she is setting you up...sort of getting you used to the ide. I know, because mine did the same thing. Be strong for yourself, not her.
As far as saving your marriage, there is nothing really you can do. Just work on yourself and love her. However, you MUST learn how to love her from a distance. No lovey talk. Nothing.
Work on yourself. FOR YOU. Not her. Not anyone else, but you.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
