I'll ponder on this and be back. I have some journalling to do, but I've left it a bit late for now.

There's been some positives from a DB coaching viewpoint, not sure there's any from a making any progress with this sitch.

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Me: 47 WW: 35
SS: 17 D: 5
T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs
OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016.
OEA continues (with occasional breaks)
BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18